Diseases and Conditions
Painful intercourse (dyspareunia)
Overview
Symptoms
Causes
Diagnosis
Treatment
Lifestyle and home remedies
Coping and support
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Lifestyle and home remedies
You and your partner might be able to minimize pain with a few changes to your sexual routine:
- Change positions. If you have sharp pain during thrusting, try different positions, such as being on top. In this position, you might be able to regulate penetration to a depth that feels good to you.
- Communicate. Talk about what feels good and what doesn't. If you need your partner to go slow, say so.
- Don't rush. Longer foreplay can help stimulate your natural lubrication. You might reduce pain by delaying penetration until you feel fully aroused.
- Use lubricants. A personal lubricant can make sex more comfortable. Try different brands until you find one you like.